这就是说,他们不再是别人思想的复读机,不再是潮流的傀儡,不再是孤独的奴隶。
That is to say, they are no longer repeaters of other peoples thoughts, puppets of trends, and lonely slaves.
离人群近一寸远,内心的落寞将会增加一尺。
One inch away from the crowd, the inner loneliness will increase by one foot.
因此,不必刻意追求热闹而空洞的合群,也不必纠缠没有意义、没有头脑的争论。用不着有人在这世界上跟你道不同,你就不会自己走。更不用因为周围的人不理解你,你觉得你做错了什么。
Therefore, there is no need to deliberately pursue lively and empty gregariousness, and there is no need to entangle meaningless and mindless arguments. You don have to be different from you in this world, you won go by yourself. Not to mention what you think you have done wrong because the people around you don understand you.
人们不会为了满足他人而生活。
People don live to satisfy others.
最好还是自己一个人去学习和生活,碰到问题,自己看书自己研究自己摸索
Its better to study and live alone. When you encounter problems, read by yourself, study by yourself, and explore by yourself
比起听别人东张西望,或与一群局外人讨论更有意义。
Its more meaningful than listening to others looking around or discussing with a group of outsiders.
许多时候真的不需要对谁多说什么,你认真做好一件事,就会为你解释一切。
Many times, you really don need to say more to anyone. If you do one thing seriously, you will explain everything for you.
人类的本性就是这样,当你一个人生活时,更容易反抗。
This is human nature. Its easier to resist when you live alone.
当你习惯了与他人共处的时候,你会更善于抱怨自己。
When you are used to living with others, you will be better at complaining about yourself.
因此,不合群没什么,不合自己的心更痛苦。
Therefore, its nothing to be out of group, and its more painful to be out of your own heart.
让人讨厌并不可怕,不害怕别人讨厌要快乐得多。
Its not terrible to be hated. Its much happier not to be afraid of being hated by others.