失恋后做了朋友，要么是爱得不够深，要么是心中有遗憾。总之，总是会很尴尬。
After being lovelorn, you become a friend, either you don love deeply enough, or you have regrets in your heart. In short, its always embarrassing.
要获得自我，就要让男人知道要付出的代价，要想要得到就得付出。
To get self, we should let men know the price to pay, and we have to pay if we want to get it.
人们一旦发现爱，所有的缺点都会变成可以解释和改变的，甚至索性也会成为优点。
Once people find love, all shortcomings will become interpretable and changeable, and even simply become advantages.
爱中的垦读者，很懂得爱。理解爱的一个明显表现，就是不能爱得失去自己，要知道爱是吸引，不是追逐。
Readers in love know love very well. An obvious manifestation of understanding love is that you can love to lose yourself. You should know that love is attraction, not pursuit.
「说话时，先了解后坚持，说得愈多，感觉愈深。」
"When speaking, understand first and then insist. The more you speak, the deeper you feel."
而且遇到这样的你，男人也会变得不愿为你付出金钱。
And meet you like this, men will become unwilling to pay money for you.
当她对你动情的时候，你就是她关心关心的那个人，所以其他异性的接近会使她失去理智，变得无理取闹。
When she is passionate about you, you are the person she cares about, so the proximity of other opposite sex will make her lose her mind and become unreasonable.
与人最终幸福的归宿，往往都是在一起的爱情，和在一起之后的长久相处，不要傻傻地不懂。
The final destination of happiness with people is often love together and long-term coexistence after being together. Don be silly and don understand.
由此便可看出一个人对你是否真心。假如在撩你的过程中，他显然是在控制沉没成本，那么你就得多留心了。
This shows whether a person is sincere to you. If he is obviously controlling sunk costs in the process of teasing you, you have to pay more attention.
