若对以上问题的回答都让你心神不宁，那么及时止损。你们八成是 ta没见光的备胎。
If the answers to the above questions make you uneasy, stop the loss in time. You e probably TA an invisible spare tire.
一些自以为很爱、很爱但又分离的人，大多是在不懂得爱的年纪，遇到了一个自认为很深爱的人。
Some people who think they love and love but are separated mostly meet a person who thinks they love deeply at an age when they don know how to love.
以后的生活，靠自己的努力走完剩下的这一程。
Later life, rely on their own efforts to complete the rest of the journey.
人们容易感冒，天气忽冷忽热。男性因寒冷而变热，女性容易“发疯”。
People are prone to colds and the weather is hot and cold. Men get hot because of cold, and women are easy to "go crazy".
爱情并不变幻，而是人心。婚姻开放所带来的最大改变，就是责任意识的逐渐丧失和敬畏。这些都是所谓“变化无常”的根本原因。
Love is not illusory, but the heart. The biggest change brought about by the opening of marriage is the gradual loss of responsibility and awe. These are the root causes of the so-called "fickleness".
如果一段感情给自己带来了太多的痛苦，总是拖着自己前进的步伐，那一定是一种关系上的错误。
If a relationship brings too much pain and always drags itself forward, it must be a relationship mistake.
人一旦爱上了，就会情不自禁地热忱，一旦热情冷却，感情也就骤然下降。
Once people fall in love, they can help but be enthusiastic. Once their enthusiasm cools, their feelings drop suddenly.
无法改变的，只能接受。对有能力改变的事，要全力以赴。
What cannot be changed can only be accepted. Do everything you can to change.
对深爱而痴情的人来说，每一次感情上的变化都会让自己像死了一样难以忍受，但是面对现实时却不得不放手。
For people who are deeply in love and infatuated, every emotional change will make them as unbearable as death, but they have to let go in the face of reality.
