但是当你自己的生活走不下去的时候，你会发现没有人对你好，谁都不想被你打扰。
But when your own life can go on, you will find that no one is good to you and no one wants to be disturbed by you.
你遇见的时候是否足够好；你们相遇后，生活安定下来了吗？
Are you good enough when you meet; Have you settled down after you met?
醒醒吧，没有什么比管理自己的生活更重要的了。先把事情做好，然后再考虑其他的事情。
Wake up, nothing is more important than managing your life. Do things well first, and then consider other things.
从物质的东西到金钱的东西，只要你愿意拿，他都可以想当然。
From material things to money, he can take it for granted as long as you are willing to take it.
当我能见到他的时候，我并不太想念他。
When I could see him, I didn miss him very much.
有她在身边，你的生活中突然有了关怀的存在。
With her around, you suddenly have care in your life.
我学会了独立，不再依附于他
I learned to be independent and no longer attached to him
因为容易，所以才会在人生的每一次遭遇中去化解自己。
Because it is easy, it will resolve itself in every encounter in life.
爱情的路上，最怕聚会太多。
On the road of love, Im most afraid of too many parties.
人越多，错的就越多，阴谋就越多。
The more people, the more mistakes, the more conspiracies.
自从分离，你已经完全画出了一条线，没有争执，没有纠缠。
Since separation, you have completely drawn a line, no dispute, no entanglement.
在那之后，你什么都不用说，他会为你考虑，为你付钱的。
After that, you don have to say anything. He will consider and pay for you.
这样的关系已经变成一种伤害，继续下去，你的心会比以前更加黑暗。
This relationship has become a kind of injury. If you continue, your heart will be darker than before.
