一、只是，但凡有比较，就难免心生自大，或自卑的情绪，以己之长比人之短，就难免骄矜狂妄，以己以短比人之长，又难免自惭形秽。However, whenever there are comparisons, it is unavoidable to feel arrogant or inferior. If you compare your own advantages with others, you will inevitably be arrogant and arrogant. If you compare your own shortcomings with those of others, you will inevitably be ashamed of yourself.
二、我们是彼此童年时代里的好兄弟，一起犯错，一起吵闹任性，一起被挨骂。只不过，怎么也没有想到，长大后的我们会有如此不同的际遇。We are good brothers in each others childhood, making mistakes together, making noises together and being scolded together. However, it never occurred to me that we would have such different opportunities when we grow up.
三、时光，会一点点的把你想要的东西拿来，同时，也会把你想留下的东西拿走。爱，是慈悲的懂得，忠于生命与爱。懂得，心底满溢感动，懂你的笑容，懂你的眼泪，懂你的欲言又止，懂你所有不动声色的悲喜。Time will bring you what you want little by little, and at the same time, you will take away what you want to leave behind. Love is the understanding of compassion, loyalty to life and love. Understand, hearts full of touching, understand your smile, understand your tears, understand your desires and stop, understand all your emotional sadness and joy.
四、别因为太过在意别人的看法，而使自己活得畏手畏脚，无论你做得多好，都会有人对你指手画脚。流年有序，旧岁渐远，我们总是习惯在岁月更替时，将往事尘封，与酸甜苦辣道别。Don let yourself live in fear of othersopinions because you care too much about them. No matter how well you do, someone will tell you what to do. As time goes by in an orderly way, the old age is getting farther and farther. We are always used to saying goodbye to bitterness and bitterness when the years change.
五、也许是我多心了，你眼中的我，或许仅仅是个安静的过客，也许我走错了，在轮回的时候，迷恋着所谓花开，于是注定要守望，守望没有尽头的尽头。Maybe its me, you see me, maybe just a quiet passer-by, maybe I went wrong, in the reincarnation, infatuated with the so-called blossom, so destined to watch, watch endless.
六、人为什么要有仪式感？这跟矫情无关，而是关于你对生活的热爱，对幸福的敏感，乃至有时候它是一种结束，也是一种开始。你不要失望，荡气回肠是为了最美的平凡Why do people have a sense of ritual? Its not about affectation. Its about your love for life, your sensitivity to happiness, and sometimes its an end and a beginning. Don be disappointed. Its for the most beautiful ordinary.
七、 人生没什么好迷茫的，不管在什么时候，要有几分信念和信心，学会挥袖从容，暖笑无殇。可是当所有的付出都不被理解，并且每回满心欢喜的期待，都换来失望透顶的伤害，谁都会感到心累。There is nothing to be confused about in life, no matter when, we should have some faith and confidence, learn to wave our sleeves calmly and laugh warmly. But when all the efforts are not understood, and every time full of joyful expectations, in exchange for the most disappointing injury, everyone will feel tired.
八、佛说：你以前很快乐，也就是说快乐本来就是属于你的。那么，是什么使你不快乐呢？剧场的戏，什么都是假的，只有观众是真的，人生的戏，什么都是真的，只有观众是假的。Buddha said: You used to be happy, that is to say, happiness belongs to you. So what makes you unhappy? Theatre plays, everything is false, only the audience is real, life plays, everything is true, only the audience is false.
九、狭隘和坏脾气不能被如此包装并泛滥，你应该相信，你能成为那个主动化解冰封的人，而你的举动则会让自己和对方从尴尬中解脱 ，并得到温暖。Narrow and bad temper can be packaged and overflowed like this. You should believe that you can be the one who takes the initiative to defuse the ice, and your actions will free you and your partner from embarrassment and warmth.
十、有时候沉默不一定代表自己没感觉，不去要求什么不代表自己心中没有什么想要的，只是知道说出来了，也不能改变什么。永远不要当第三者，当男人能背叛妻子和你在一起时，他也一定会因为别的女人背叛你，而你的处境会比他的妻子更惨。Sometimes silence doesn necessarily mean that you don feel, don ask for anything doesn mean that you don have anything in mind, just know what to say, and can change anything. Never be a third party. When a man can betray his wife and be with you, he will betray you because of another woman, and your situation will be worse than that of his wife.
十一、生活从来不会刻意亏欠谁，它给了你一块阴影，必会在不远的地方撒下阳光。你感动不了一个不爱你的人，就像38码的脚无论怎么努力都挤不进36码的鞋子。Life never deliberately owes anyone, it gives you a shadow, will be in the near place to cast sunshine. You can move a person who doesn love you, just like a 38-yard foot can squeeze into a 36-yard shoe no matter how hard you try.
十二、拿自己脾气不好来要挟别人，成天在坏脾气中度过的人，生活中比比皆是。理所当然地让别人受委屈以成全自己，说白了，就是自私。People who use their bad temper to coerce others and spend their days in bad temper are everywhere in life. It is selfish to let others be wronged in order to perfect themselves, to put it plainly.
十三、不要说，离开以后还会想念；不要说，分手以后还是朋友。离开一个地方，风景就不再属于你；错过一个人，那人便与你无关。怦然心动只是刹那惊艳，柴米油盐才是一辈子的生活方式。Don say, I will miss you after I leave; don say, I will be friends after I break up. If you leave a place, the scenery will no longer belong to you; if you miss someone, that person will have nothing to do with you. Heart beat is just a flash of surprise, firewood, rice, oil and salt is the lifestyle of a lifetime.
十四、 一个人想，一个人走，一个人笑，一个人哭，一个人伤心，一个人从有心到无心，一首歌从有情到无情，这是自己现在的心情，也是对自己执着的感情。A person thinks, a person walks, a person laughs, a person cries, a person is sad, a person from conscious to unintentional, a song from sentimental to ruthless, this is his present mood, but also his persistent feelings.
十五、 从你忍心伤害我的那一刻起，我就知道，我的感受，你一定从没考虑过。念旧的人总是容易受伤，喜欢用余生等一句别来无恙。最深的绝望，是你明知道自己渴望，却得对它装聋作哑。From the moment you had the heart to hurt me, I knew that you had never thought about how I felt. People who are nostalgic are always vulnerable to injury. They like to wait for the rest of their lives to be safe. The deepest despair is that you know what you want, but you have to pretend to be deaf and dumb about it.
十六、 很累的时候，就听几首歌放空；很烦的时候，就去楼下跑步；很焦虑的时候，就去洗把脸。爱的人爱不到，就先爱自己，等的那天还没来，就先做自己喜欢的事。你就是一本书，何必非要去当别人的书签，难过一会儿就行了，时间如此宝贵，哪能都浪费在难过上。When you e tired, just listen to a few songs and let them go. When you e bored, you run downstairs. When you e anxious, you wash your face. If the lover can love, he will love himself first. Before the day comes, he will do what he likes first.
You are just a book. Why not be a bookmark for someone else? Just be sad for a moment. Time is so precious that you can waste it on sorrow.
十七、你说，我不能赶上你，是因为我从来没有开口叫你等等我。那现在，我想拜托你等等我，你会不会真的停下脚步？You said I couldn catch up with you because I never asked you to wait for me. Now, I want to ask you to wait for me, will you really stop?
十八、推迟满足感，意味着不贪图暂时的安逸，重新设置人生快乐与痛苦的次序：首先，面对问题并感受痛苦；然后，解决问题并享受更大的快乐，这是唯一可行的生活方式。Delaying gratification means not wanting temporary comfort and resetting the order of happiness and pain in life: first, facing problems and feeling pain; and then, solving problems and enjoying greater happiness, which is the only viable way of life.
十九、这世上，没有能回去的感情。就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆。是的，回不去了，所以，我们只能一直往前。In this world, there is no feeling to go back. Even if you really go back, you will find that everything is totally different. The only thing that can go back is the memory in the bottom of my heart. Yes, we can go back, so we have to go straight ahead.
二十、 好的爱情是你通过一个人看到世界，坏的爱情是你为一个人舍弃世界。不必因为寂寞而凑合着恋爱，要相信，属于你的总会到来，试着让自己变得更丰盛、更强大。不必害怕，岁月有的是时间让你遇到更好的人。Good love makes you see the world through one person, bad love makes you abandon the world for one person. Don make love because you are lonely. Believe that you will always come and try to make yourself richer and stronger. Don be afraid, there is time for you to meet better people.
二十一、人生就是这样，和阳光的人在一起，心里就不会晦暗；和快乐的人在一起，嘴角就常带微笑；和进取的人在一起，行动就不会落后；和大方的人在一起，处事就不小气；和睿智的人在一起，遇事就不迷茫；和聪明的人在一起，做事就变机敏。借人之智，完善自己；学最好的别人，做最好的自己。Life is like this, with the sunshine people, the heart will not be dark; with happy people, the corners of the mouth will always smile; with progressive people, action will not lag behind; with generous people, things will not be stingy
with wise people, things will not be confused; with wise people, things will become smart. By borrowing the wisdom of others, we can perfect ourselves; by learning the best others, we can be the best ourselves.
